Workplace abuse is theft

Uncategorized Aug 31, 2020

"Someone in your office walks out every day with a laptop under his coat. He fences them down the street and keeps the money. After he's discovered, how long should he keep his job? What if he's a really hard worker? Perhaps you give him a warning, but when he's discovered stealing again a week from now, then what? Bullying costs far more than laptop theft does," says Marketing Guru Seth Godin in his blog post "Bullying is theft."

Bullying is "intentionally using power to cause physical or emotional distress with the purpose of dominating the other person," says Godin. "The bully works to marginalize people. In an organizational setting, the bully chooses not to engage in conversation or discussion or to use legitimate authority or suasion and depends instead on pressure in the moment to demean and disrespect someone else — by undermining not just their ideas but their very presence and legitimacy."

Most bullies aren't sociopaths, immune to correction. They are opportunists, using the tools that have often worked for them in the past.

And bullying pushes out the best employees or at least stifles their creativity and productivity. Simply put: great employees slowly stop caring. When the best employees stop doing their best, the organization takes a hit in lost ideas, connection, and insights.

"Do they [senior managers] understand that tolerating and excusing bullying behavior is precisely what permits it to flourish?" asks Godin. "If so, the next steps are painful and difficult but quite direct. Bullies can't work here."

You either:

  • Work in a supportive, collaborative work environment, free of bullies.
  • Support bullies by tolerating them as subordinates. Start dishing out warnings.
  • Should consider moving on if you're part of an organization where bullies thrive. Culture is top-down. It will not change unless top-level management changes.

"Just as laptop theft drops when our tolerance of it disappears, so does bullying," explains Godin. "Most bullies aren't sociopaths, immune to correction. They are opportunists, using the tools that have often worked for them in the past."

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